young son always irritate  in such manner. like wise this story, one monk/saint was sitting in his ashram. his old friend came to him  and he recollected his memories and remembered and asked the saint , are you MULAYAM  CHAND, the saint said yes i am MULAYAM CHAND.after some discussion then his friend asked the same question, are you mulayam chand  so saint replied in painful tone yes I AM MULAYAM CHAND ok friend said .after some time friend asked are you mulyam chand  so saint rebuked him  and saint you are seems to be mad. i told you that i am mulayam chand  and you forget. so his friend said you are not MULAYAM CHAND  BUT NOW YOU ARE HARD CHAND. because in saintly state you should be arrogant. you must be calm in every state. if you are in irritative state so you are   not saint/monk.

*Once, an old man was sitting on a bench of a garden with his 25yrs old son. There was a tree beside the bench. Old man saw a bird sitting on the tree. He asked the son- what’s
this? Son replied- it’s a crow.

The old… man again asked what’s this? Son said- I already told u that it’s a crow. The old man again asked what’s this? Son angrily said- are u deaf or mad, papa? How many times to tell u it’s a crow. Can’t u understand?

Old man patiently replied- my dear son, when u were 5yrs old, u asked me 174 times the same question that what’s this and i replied everytime with a kiss that, it’s a crow! Now, I askd u 3 times and u were irritated.

NOTE: It’s the difference between the love of parents and love from the  children

So please do your duty when your parents are dependent on u. Don’t hurt them.
Love your parents, you’ll be in their shoes soon*